Some awesome persons response to the shitty people who are shitty (spelling mistakes and all because it fucking makes sense) is as follows:
Submission: R/Hr shippers coming to our blogs to say nasty things
The question is why?
There is two comments i use to leave to them and they never answer:
Why do they bother to hurt us, go intentionaly to HHr videos, fanarts, fictions or blog, when even H/G shippers doesnt give a damn to us? And never go to Ron/Luna or Draco/ Hermione or Krum/ Hermione shippers and say “R/Hr is meant to be” or my favorite “those who doesnt love cannon reaterded” If they think it is just totally nonsense, why they dont bother other cannon ships featuring Ron or Hermione. I think because we hit home.
Movies (Yeah it has nothing to do with the actuall ship in he books, but i always considered it like little tidbits wich ad to the story, the scenes wich arent in the film, like little sequels).
1. We had Dan and Emma. But it is a huge blow to them to have an actor and an actress playing Harry and Hermione who had this great chemistry. What i mean by that is Emma and Rupert cute together on screen, but come on… their isn’t sexual tension, while between Dan and Emma…
2. Kloves loves the character of Hermione and he knows a lot about the characters, JKR said that, and she added that he thought there wiull be something between the pair. And he added a lot of HHr moments to the movies.
I always thought that the ship you chose kind of represent your personality and taste in love. And the idea of Harry and Hermione is represents the love i crave for.
Someone sad that RHR is like your teenage crush, full of adrenalin and passion, wich burnes itself out with time, and nothing remains after it to compens the arguing. Cause they are opposites wich creates tension. It can be exciting and can lead wonderfull make up sex, but with the years passing the couple will be tired of it all. Such a stress cant be lived with for a lifetime. People keep comparing RHR to Mr and Mrs Weasley wich i find funny. I mean they exist together cause Mr Weasley is a patient and calm man, and doesnt shout back. But nor Ron or Hermione could stand that, eventually when the happy pink cloudes are over they will run out of patience, and their diference in character will lead to endless arguing. And there is the ones who comparing them to James and lily, it is more laughable. Lily is somewhat like Hermione in a lot of aspect, yeah, but Ron is far from being like James. James Potter is confident, arrogant, skillfull Quiddicth player, good in classes powerfull and rich. Everything Ron isnt. And it isnt a bad thing,i love Ron with his insecurites, he is brave and kind, wich are very respectfull qualities but his type isnt the man a girl like Herminoe could look up to. I mean Hermione always underestimated Ron. Hermione wants career, she would have a respectfull job, earn good money, and i couldnt imagine how Ron could deal with that her wife being above him, when he couldnt deal with it in smaller things.
And the love HHr shares even if it platonic (wich JKR said could have blossomed into love) is what you are craving for as an adult. The security, the understanding is what the canon ship lacks, you can tell it from the way they act unintentionally. They grab eachother, move together in dangerous situation. They say HHr is boring, there isnt passion, and how great turn on is the arguing to RHR. I think passion shouldnt come from the arguing. it should come from love, to have somebody connect with you in such an intimate way, the urge to have him/her as close as you can. To fight for domination is fun, but deep love is tender, not just rawness.
I never really belived HHr will get together in the books, cause i knew JKR wanted other wise. And in my opinion around the middle her characters started to get out of hand. She wanted it to be RHR and HG but she created such a strong bond between HHr wich cant be overlooked. I belive in girl/boy friendship, but i dont belive gir/lboy bestfriendship, if someone from the opposite sex becames that close, their will always be the possibilty of soemething more, in their heads they will consider it in one point, at least one of them will, Maybe they will never act on it for the shake of their friendship. And this is why i think JKR made a mistake. He made other characters belive they are in love, cause they acted like that ( Krum, Cho, McGonaggal, Dumbledore, Ron, Mrs. Weasley) And from the book 6 and 7 i felt they acted strangely, they did things wich were out of there characters. Like she toned it down, the bond they share, to have space to RHR and HG. I think she recognised that why we were so passionate about them, that „we werent necesarly misguided”, she planted the poosibility. And if she countinued that way after 5 book, it could have easely lead to HHr, and it woul have destoreyed the base of the book. Cause if it would happened, than Ron wouldnt bear the thought of it, and the trio would be destroyed, the friendship between them also, and this would destorye the book, cause the friendship is one of the most important element in it, the forgivness, sacrafice. And this leads to the point i am finally being happy. In my mind Hermione and Harry’s love is a sacrafice for others and their friendship. Source of inspiration for countless fanfiction, videos. I can saw them in my head, their love became real everytime i read a fic, in thousand way, But canon shipers cant. They can never honestly belive to a fic wich describes RHR a peacefull tender couple unless they alternate the characters. But we never experienced what could have been, so the real story of Harry and Hermione is wanting to be told. There will be always that little voice wispeing that HHr could have gone that way, and RHr shippers cant stand that, they feel the need to silent that liitle voice, this is why they hurt us."
“[Jo] loved, for example, the scene in this film where Harry and Hermione dance. You know? And some fans will like it, some won’t, but actually Jo loved it, because… In a way, you know, there’s a part of you that thinks Harry and Hermione should have been together, even though they weren’t. And also, it’s a scene without dialogue that really says so much.”
David Heyman (via thequietworld)
...*sigh* that made me feel loads better.